I have heard this several times from people I used to be involved in.
I never really got it.
Of course I am spoiled; that is the way it's supposed to be.
Find someone who loves you and spoils you. Right? WRONG!
I'll talk about boundaries later on which is where being SPOILED falls into that category.
For today the words FAIR and UNFAIR back then in my mind meant I was owed something.
I was supposed to have something.
The world was supposed to line up and be a certain way - for me.
Now I see it as GROWTH.
Whether LIFE is FAIR or UNFAIR is not the LESSON.
The LESSON to me is how I handle each situation.
Of course I would like to think that if I work hard that my life is going to be great. I'm going to be this fantastic Life Coach and help myself and my clients. I'm going to wake up everyday and enjoy walking out my PURPOSE. This may or may not happen or it may be somewhere in between or some mixture - who knows. What I do know is nothing will ever happen if I am driven and motivated by whether something is FAIR or UNFAIR. My Life is governed by my belief system. I am a spiritual being and for me that means any situation I find myself in can only be a LESSON; it can only be a moment for Self-Reflection and Growth.
You have a 'FAIR/UNFAIR ' story and want to share?
Please chime in.
Peace & Love
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