December 14

Shortcuts are never shortcuts!

It is so tempting to ignore part of yourself to get to where you think you want to be.
In the end it is not.

The growth is in the lesson.  If you skip any part of the lesson you will not get the proper growth.  Your foundation will be weaken.  The walls will be warped.

To make any changes in your physical you must address it through your mental, spiritual and emotional gateways.  All the pieces fit together and work together.  If you fix you outside through your inside then you have the right foundation to build your physical on.  Any changes you want to make comes from transforming the inside FIRST.

Remember it is all a process.

If you miss it one time; try again.

Keep working on yourself.

You are WORTH it!

Do you have a  'MENTAL, SPIRITUAL, EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL' story and want to share?  

Please chime in.

Peace & Love

#SpeakLyfe  #SpiritualPSA

December 13

News flash.

People are usually not FOR you. And the more you pursue your PURPOSE the fewer people will be around you.  People will start to tell you the pitfalls of what you are trying to do. Why you should or should not do what you are doing. They will act like they are the authority on the subject.  Remember that people are usually acting out of FEAR.  Somewhere in their lives they have done something and failed or wanted to do something and were too afraid. Then here you come all excited about where your spirit is leading you and they get caught up in it; just like it were them.

Remember God/Universe will bring the right people in your life who will support you and at times the spirit will give you the strength to make it through situations by yourself.  Either way you will be alright.

Last year August 18, 2014 I left my counseling job.  I'd worked hard to get my degree in 2 years instead of 4.  I walked past the people who said I would never get a counseling job without a Masters.  I did all of that so it was really hard for me to leave. I knew spiritually I could not do the job anymore however; at the time I didn't have the money in the bank nor another job to leave to. so I kept pushing myself.  Finally with my spirit worn down I walked away.  It was not scary at the time because I had everything.  When I started losing things and it came time that I could not pay for my apartment anymore it got critical.  I got a part time job in October and then I got hired for a full time job that started in December. All of that did not matter because I needed money NOW!  Even with everything I was losing I knew I'd done the right thing.  I had to sale all my furniture; put the rest of my things in storage and move to a hotel.  I would move from hotel to hotel every day or every few days. I continued to work 2 jobs and believe God had a plan for me.  After about 6 weeks I got a beautiful place at the beach and was able to quit my part time job a few months later.

Fast forward to today and I have been at my job over 1 year and my spiritual growth has been through the roof.  I had to heal from a lot of issues and had a lot of growth moments.  At times it all seemed too painful however; I am so glad I  took that U-Turn and got my life back on my spiritual track.  Now I was able to walk out my spiritual study and growth - I had room for that in my life.

Now, I am not telling you to go out and quit your job.  I am giving you an example of how my life went.  It is up to you to put in the time and work with whoever created you and your gift to know exactly what you need to do in your life.

All I can say; IT'S WORTH IT!

Do you have a  'PERSON IN YOUR LIFE CHANGE' story and want to share?  

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Peace & Love

#SpeakLyfe  #SpiritualPSA

December 12

Funny this should be today's affirmation.

I was lamenting this past week about not being able to help one of my children.  She said she didn't feel like she could talk to me  - or anyone.  Let me just say you can not Life Coach your family; even it they ask you to.  I know my daughter is aware of her spiritual gift and this is just her journey.  I have to respect her boundaries as a Mother and as a fellow spiritual being.

It took me a long time to be able to talk about what was really bothering me; so I do understand.  I eventually found a really good Therapist and was able to open up to her.  After an even longer time I began to realize I was making it worse by not addressing my issues head on. The FEAR was worse than the actual issue.  I was so afraid to talk about what really hurt me for fear that it would overcome me and I would not be strong enough to get back up.  It was better to just focus on something else and let everybody think I was this mean, angry person.  My angry outburst kept anyone from getting too close and it worked until.....it didn't.

When you are ready to address the real issues in your life the ONE who created you will send a person to be your support while you transition.

In the meantime stay encouraged!

Help is on the way.

Do you have a  'COVER UP' story and want to share?  

Please chime in.

Peace & Love

#SpeakLyfe  #SpiritualPSA

December 11

It's so easy to hide from your problems by helping other people.

We have all seen the headlines where people we admire get taken down by some pretty basic stuff:  sex, affairs, over eating, shopping addiction or relationships with their friends and family that are toxic and they still get caught up in them.

Remember your gift started when you invested in your spiritual self.  You connected with your spirit and then you began investing in your spiritual self. For me that is: meditating, working out, reading and watching spiritual material, studying, self reflection by keeping a journal -video and/or writing and making myself accountable/transparent to the Triangle (A spiritual group I belong to).

Continue to be true to your spiritual practice even as your client base increases. People are sent to you by the ONE who created you.  If the ONE can't trust you with yourself then how can you be trusted to help people.  Why would you want to help people with "do what I say; not as I do"?  Why would you want to invest any time helping anyone more than you help yourself? I believe now that you can still be in the mist of your transition and healing and still be great in your gift.

It is all about balance.

Take some time to re-evaluate your spiritual practice. If you find you have gotten away from some of them; recommit.

Do you have an  'INVEST IN YOURSELF/GIFT' story and want to share?  

Please chime in.

Peace & Love

#SpeakLyfe  #SpiritualPSA

December 10

I can think of a few times since 2005/2006 up to 2014 that I just blew it.
I made the wrong decisions based on false sense of loyalty, emotions and yes - LOVE.
It seems the more  I tried to make the right decisions things just did not work out.  I beat myself up all the time for it especially as I'm poised to launch the rest of my Life Coach business - my 2nd business. (www.gotbootcamp.com).

In fact just today even though I know better I was feeling kinda defeated about some hospital bills I incurred after I was hit from behind.  Through no fault of my own I have this debt and I can't believe the lawyers/insurance did not take care of it.  I can't believe the hospital settled and I still owe.

My Spirit is wonderful; as I went through my FB today I saw so many positive, encouraging affirmations that it lifted me and I was like fine.  Now I know what I need to do and when the door opens I'll have a game plan.  I put the hospital bills to the side and jumped on my BLOG.

If you put my 1st business in a nutshell; I lived without utilities and only ate sometimes.  I put my SOUL into my business.  I was always doing something to get that next contact.  What I have gone through with this business is nothing.  I have to remember to remind myself that I - under inspiration from the ONE who created me - created a company on my sick bed when the doctor told me I would never walk again.  I didn't know  anything about a business proposal; after pitching my first contract the VP asked for a copy of it because he was so impressed.

At the end of the day I got myself into the situations I have found myself in and no matter how bad and low I feel; I am the only one who can get myself out.  It takes my whole self:  Physical, Mental, Spiritual and Emotional -  to get me out.

Whenever you feel down; remember those times when you felt the same way; and YOU got yourself out.

Remember2Remember.


Do you have an  'ALL OF YOU' story and want to share?  

Please chime in.

Peace & Love

#SpeakLyfe  #SpiritualPSA

December 9

Sometimes it can be scary when you finally start to get your open door(s).

Depending on how long you have been on your journey; the excitement of the door or doors opening is one thing and actually walking through the door(s) is another.

During your slow moments is an important time for you to connect spiritually with the ONE who created you so you will be able to move by your spirit and not have the FEAR.  What is being created in your life has never existed for you before so it is normal to have some reservations - even fear however; to allow fear to stop you is another.

Remember no matter how many people you help you are still growing. The door(s) that are opening for you are more expansions to your gift.

Embrace your open door(s)!

Do you have a  'FEAR OF BEING YOU' story and want to share?  

Please chime in.

Peace & Love

#SpeakLyfe  #SpiritualPSA

December 8

It's all a process.

No matter how excited you get or what you believe can happen.
It has to happen in order - one step at a time. (Figuratively)

When the struggle comes rest in knowing that you are attached to your Destiny and it will guide you through each step.  Destiny will make sure that even when you can't take a step you will still be on track. Your Destiny wants you to walk in it.  You can not miss your Destiny.

Only if you QUIT!

Do you have a  'NEXT STEP' story and want to share?  

Please chime in.

Peace & Love

#SpeakLyfe  #SpiritualPSA